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Rebuilding Intimacy After Years of DisconnectionIt’s a quiet drift that happens over months, sometimes years. Life gets busy with work, children, and daily responsibilities, and suddenly you and your partner feel more like roommates than a romantic couple. The deep, emotional connection that once defined your relationship ... |
Is Your Partner Emotionally Withdrawn?It’s normal for couples to disagree. Conflict is a natural, even healthy, part of any relationship. It’s how we navigate our differences, express our needs, and ultimately grow closer. But what happens when the arguments stop and silence takes over? What happens when one pa... |
Curiosity: Your Compass for Inner HealingThe path to healing often feels like a steep, uphill climb. It can be daunting, filled with difficult emotions and uncomfortable truths. While courage and resilience are essential companions on this journey, there is another, often overlooked, quality that can transform the ent... |
Questions to Ask in a Trauma Counseling ConsultationTaking the first step toward healing from trauma is a significant act of courage. Finding the right therapist is a crucial part of this journey. The initial consultation is more than just an appointment; it's an opportunity for you to interview a potential partner in your recov... |
Trauma-Informed Care vs. Traditional TherapyWhen seeking mental health support, understanding the different therapeutic approaches available is the first step toward healing. For those who have experienced traumatic events, the distinction between traditional therapy and trauma-informed care is especially important. Whil... |
How Trauma Can Affect Your Physical HealthTrauma is often discussed in terms of its psychological impact—flashbacks, anxiety, depression, and PTSD are frequently part of the conversation. But the effects of a traumatic experience are not confined t... |
Understanding the Different Faces of TraumaTrauma is a word we hear often, but its meaning can feel vast and sometimes misunderstood. It's more than just a bad experience; it's a deep emotional response to a distressing event. This response can linger long after the event has passed, affecting our sense of safety, our s... |
What Not to Do During Heated MomentsAll couples argue. It’s a normal, even healthy, part of any relationship. But there’s a difference between a productive disagreement and a destructive fight. Heated moments can bring out the worst in us, leading us to say and do things we later regret. The key isn’t to avoid conflict altogether, but to learn how to navigate it constructively.... |
How to Repair After Saying Something HurtfulWords have power. The right ones can build connection and trust, but the wrong ones can cause deep pain, leaving scars long after the conversation ends. We’ve all been there—in a moment of anger, stress, or thoughtlessness, we say something that we immediately regret. The a... |
The Real Reason You Keep Having the Same FightDo you ever feel like you and your partner are stuck in a loop, having the same argument over and over? One day it’s about the unwashed dishes, the next it’s about being late, but the underlying feeling of frustration and misunderstanding is always the same. It can be exhau... |
Heather Oller is the owner and founder of Orlando Thrive Therapy, Coaching, and Counseling. She is a licensed counselor and a family mediator who has over 23 years of dedicated work as a professional in the mental health field. Through her company's mission, she continues to pave the way for future therapists, and their clients, who want a higher quality of life....and who want to thrive, rather than just survive. You can contact Orlando Thrive Therapy at (407) 592-8997 for more information.