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Why We Avoid Our Feelings (& How Therapy Can Help)Many of us have been there. After a long, stressful day, instead of sitting with our thoughts, we reach for our phones and scroll endlessly. Or maybe we pour a glass of wine, turn on the TV, and try to numb the discomfort we don't want to face. This pattern of pushing away diff... |
How to Express Your Needs Without Sounding DemandingCommunicating your needs is fundamental to a healthy relationship. Yet, many people struggle to do so effectively. There’s a fine line between expressing a need and making a demand, and crossing it can lead to conflict, resentment, and a breakdown in communication. You might ... |
5-Minute Habits That Can Strengthen Your MarriageMarriage is often seen as a series of grand gestures—romantic getaways, expensive anniversary gifts, and dramatic declarations of love. While these moments are wonderful, the true strength of a partnership is often forged in the small, everyday interactions that can easily be... |
How to Stop the Silent Treatment in a MarriageConflict is a normal, even healthy, part of any long-term relationship. Disagreements are inevitable, but how you handle them makes all the difference. When communication breaks down, some people resort to what is commonly known as the "silent treatment"—a pattern of shutting... |
The Hidden Ways Couples Miscommunicate Without Realizing ItCommunication is often hailed as the cornerstone of a healthy relationship, but what happens when you think you're communicating effectively, yet still feel disconnected from your partner? Many couples fall into subtle patterns of miscommunication without even realizing it. The... |
How to Share Your Needs Without Shame or FearHave you ever found yourself staying quiet when you needed something from your partner? Maybe you didn't want to seem needy, start an argument, or risk feeling rejected. It's a common experience. Many of us learn early on to suppress our needs, believing that asking for what we... |
Why Physical & Emotional Intimacy Are IntertwinedIntimacy is a word often used to describe the physical side of a romantic relationship. While this is true, it only captures one part of a much larger picture. A truly strong partnership is built on two pillars: emotional intimacy and physical intimacy. These two elements are d... |
Why Emotional Intimacy Fades & How to Reignite ItWhen you first fall in love, the connection often feels effortless. You talk for hours, share your deepest secrets, and feel completely seen and understood by your partner. This deep sense of connection is known as emotional intimacy, and it's the glue that holds a relationship... |
How to Feel Close Again When You’ve Grown ApartLife is a long journey, and it’s natural for the people walking it with you to change over time. You change, your partner changes, and sometimes, without even noticing, a distance begins to form. One day you might look at the person you love and wonder how you ended up feelin... |
How to Rebuild Trust After a BetrayalBetrayal, especially infidelity, is one of the most painful experiences a relationship can endure. It shatters the foundation of trust, leaving a trail of hurt, confusion, and anger. The path forward can seem impossible, and many couples wonder if their relationship can ever tr... |
Heather Oller is the owner and founder of Orlando Thrive Therapy, Coaching, and Counseling. She is a licensed counselor and a family mediator who has over 23 years of dedicated work as a professional in the mental health field. Through her company's mission, she continues to pave the way for future therapists, and their clients, who want a higher quality of life....and who want to thrive, rather than just survive. You can contact Orlando Thrive Therapy at (407) 592-8997 for more information.