A therapist Orlando helps couples with advice. Taking them from feeling "bored" to dating again. It is common for many couples get in routines or "ruts." They forget how to date one another. Both partners start to get the perception that the "spark" is gone, or that things have changed, or that things have gotten boring.
An important thing to remember in relationships is that not only is it an equal playing field in trust, communication, affection, but also in keeping things alive. We have all heard the phrase, “never stop dating your significant other,” but what does that mean for your relationship?
Any therapist Orlando will tell you that you should never stop surprising your partner. You should always have a new date idea. You should always keep them guessing. That shows your partner that you have put thought and energy into making them happy and learning who they are.
We at Orlando Thrive Therapy have complied a list of date ideas in the Orlando area that therapist in Orlando find helpful to most couples:
Another pro-tip for these occasions is to put your phones on silent. It may not seem like a big deal to your partner, but in today’s age many insecurities and problems with communication manifest from our dependency to our mobile devices. Ensure to focus on the quality time you’re spending with your partner. Make a promise to not use them, or to leave them in the car on dates, or keep them on silent.
Sometimes, problems in our personal relationships are deeper than having more dates and spending more time together. Very often, we as humans project our own insecurities and problems onto our partners and create various issues. Other times, relationships need some new skills in realms of communication, affection, and expectations.
Heather Oller is a licensed Orlando therapist at Orlando Thrive Therapy, Coaching & Counseling who specializes in counseling Orlando couples, individuals, and families who are seeking changes in their lives. She has been a mental health professional for over 17 years and is a practicing Orlando counselor that specializes in conflict resolution for couples. You can contact her for an appointment or call 407-592-8997 for more information.